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Jane Fonda: "It took me 30 years to get feminism"
April 10, 2016 - 7:52pm
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From the Guardian:
How many years should babblers be allowed, to "get feminism"?
I'm going to suggest only 10, because we have way more advantages than Jane Fonda.
Was there a point to that response?
It's called privilege Magoo. All this time and you haven't even got the terminology down pat. What kind of feminist are you anyway. I feel sorry for the real feminists. They must be so tired of your shit.
Gotta say that I pretty much got it right off, and I'm a dude.
That's what struck me about her story. I thought I got it right off (late 60s). Equality, choice, abuse, seemed like a no-brainer. And Jane Fonda was one of my heroes then too - she actually dared to not only oppose the U.S. war in South-East Asia, but famously hoisted a flag once of the "other" side and expressed her support for their struggle!
She says it took her many years to understand how she had "internalised sexism" and the damage it caused her. In my case, it took me decades to understand, not only the discrimination and oppression faced by women - I thought that was good enough to make me an ally - but maybe more importantly, the privilege that I harboured inside me, whether I liked it or not - and the damage which that has done. And I'm pretty sure my journey is far from over.
When I say I pretty much got it right off, i didn't mean to sound flippant. I was set on a good course before I had even heard of the word, by my Mom, Grandmother and two older sisters, as well as the relationships I saw modelled in my childhood. In terms of political, or activist feminism, one of my best ongoing teachers is my daughter, who will not hesitate for a second to kick patriarchal ass.